After almost dying from utter nervousness, you’re engaged. But the proposal was just the first of many steps that will prepare you for saying ‘I do.’

“You should pick a date that’s 12 months away,” Kelly Brantley, owner and planner of Unique As You Events in Rochester, N.Y., suggests. Having a year will give you time to prepare everything involved in the wedding planning process. “And you’ll have enough time to choose your best man and ask him in advance,” Kelly adds.

It’s up to you and your fiancée if you want to send engagement announcements and/or have an engagement party. Planning a party is a fun and exciting way to begin your involvement. You can gather everyone together to celebrate the great news.

Consider hiring a wedding planner. A professional planner can be extremely helpful if your wedding destination is in a different state or country. “When hiring a planner, it is good to do some research. How long have they been in the business?  How many weddings have they done? What special background or education do they have in the field?” Kelly said.

However, Kelly does not suggest using close friends or family members. It's fine to get input from friends and family but planning a wedding is a big job and you should employ a trained, experienced professional. “If something were to happen, it could ruin relationships. Also, they could end up missing out on enjoying the wedding day because they would be so busy taking care of all the details. Hiring a professional planner is the way to go vs. friends/family,” she advises.

Contact wedding planners that friends have used or reference previous clients of a wedding planner that you’re interested in. Ask for a portfolio of their work. Create and have both parties sign a formal contract outlining your expectations, the services provided by the planner and a payment plan. “Hiring a wedding planner takes the stress away,” says Kelly.